So we pick and choose who we want to remain close to, and once we've chosen those people, we tend to stick close by. No matter how much we hurt them. The people that are still with you at the end of the day, those are the ones worth keeping. And sure, sometimes close can be too close. But sometimes, that invasion of personal space, it can be exactly what you need.
I'd also like to call him my husband. I'm not the biggest fan of the word “partner”: It either means that we run a business together or we're cowboys. “Boyfriend” seems fleeting, like maybe we met two weeks ago. I've been saying “better half” for as long as I've been able to. I think it's a little self-deprecating and clearly defines that we're in a relationship, but it would be nice to say “my husband."